Why No More Taboo believe Mums' skills are invaluable.
- By Chloe Tingle
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- 14 Oct, 2016
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As a female empowerment and equality organisation, we believe in women and we especially believe in Mums.
Over the last few months I
have met a lot of mothers here in the UK (of both young and older children) who
feel undervalued, left out and pushed aside in the world of work. Meaning many
are left doing part-time jobs they are way over-qualified for, trying to
squeeze a 40-hour work week into their part time ‘32 hour’ week (that is
neither flexible or part-time) or not finding any work at all.
I’ve also met lots of amazing ‘mumpreneurs’ who have been fed up with this saga and started their own business to get the flexibility and job satisfaction they need. Surely there should be something in between?
Although I’m not personally a mother, my baby ‘no more taboo’ requires a lot of my time and attention and I have been put in a similar position looking for part time and flexible work to fit around running the organisation. It is a very difficult position to be in and is incredibly demotivating to have all your skills and experience over looked because you cannot commit to a standard 9am-5pm job.
Hearing interview stories about employer’s asking “Well what about this 5-year gap in your C.V, can you explain this?” or “You need more up-to-date experience”. Why are they not valuing the life-experience that mothers’ have been getting in that time? You know multi-tasking, working under pressure, dealing with difficult customers, negotiating. They are constantly learning new skills.
It is sad to see how many women are losing their confidence in their own ability because of these constant knock backs from archaic employers who can’t get out of the mind-set of 9am-5pm Monday to Friday. At No More Taboo, flexible working is intrinsic to what we do, we’re a tiny start-up organisation run entirely by volunteers so it has to be, but we know as we grow bigger we will continue to offer flexible roles which focus on people’s skills not the time they can commit.
Menstruation and mums are intrinsically linked; I mean you couldn’t have a baby without having periods could you? Lots of Mum’s tell us how much they love our products, maybe partly because they aren’t grossed out by the sight of their own blood (they’ve seen worse) or maybe because they can see by making a small change in their own life they can help make someone else’s period a little bit better.
Mums, we respect you! If you agree that Mum's skills should be appreciated let us know through our Facebook or Twitter.
If you’re a mum keen to use your skills and experience to help us grow why not get in touch? Or apply for our current opportunities of Business Development Manager or Fundraising Manager.
**By the way, this isn’t supposed to be a blog about ‘gender roles’ we believe in equality and we are not saying that fathers’ don’t go through the same struggles, just in my line of work ‘periods’ it is usually mothers who I meet and have these discussions with. We’re also not implying that every mother needs or wants flexible work, this is just a blog aimed at engaging with those who do**
WOW Women of the World festivals have been popping up across the world, if you get the chance to go along to one we would strongly recommend it.
WOW – Women of the World festival celebrates women and girls, and looks at the obstacles that stop them from achieving their potential.
Around the world, individuals and communities are insisting on the simple proposition that women and girls must have equal rights and asking the question: why is gender equality taking so long?
Southbank Centre's WOW – Women of the World festival is a global network of festivals which provides a platform for celebrating what has been achieved, and exploring all the ways we can change the world for the better.
What’s not to love?
Our Founder, Chloe, and her Mum Angela went along to represent No More Taboo with a stall across the two days. Here’s her highlights:
“Although we didn’t get much time to take in all the discussions as we were kept busy wo-manning the stall (thanks Mum for helping out)! We had some great discussions around gender, equality, inclusivity and of course periods with new customers, supporters, other panellists and some old friends who came to see us.
In fact, we were really pleased to catch up with Plan International UK who were opening the festival with a discussion about Period Activism exactly one year on since the launch of our #BreaktheBarriers research and Period Poverty Conference that we ran in collaboration with Plan.
On the first weekend of September, No More Taboo set up shop at Lush Cribbs Causeway for their Charity Pot weekend.
The Lush Charity Pot is a wonderfully creamy shea-butter hand lotion where all the sales money (excluding VAT) goes towards a chosen charity or non-for-profit. This scheme is designed to help boost grass-roots, small and local organisations, like ourselves, financially so that we can continue to do the work we do such as our Tackling Period Poverty programme.
As we were Lush’s chosen organisation for the weekend of the 1-2 September, one of our volunteers, Iloni, and one of our advisors, Carolyn, went along to wo-man the (suitably Lush-styled aesthetic) stall that Lush had kindly provided for us. We took along a range of our products, stacks of leaflets and information as well as our enthusiasm for talking about all things to do with periods.
Over the weekend, we sold over £200’s worth of stock with Ruby Cups and Honour Your Flow re-usable pads proving most popular with Lush customers. On top of this, Lush sold so many of their Charity Pots that £340.60 was raised for No More Taboo – which was amazing!
However exciting the money side of things were with this event, what I personally took away as being the real highlight of the weekend was the number and nature of conversations we shared with customers.
Mothers and daughters came and chatted to us about how they agreed it was so important to use re-usable products for personal and financial reasons as well as for the planet’s sake. Boyfriends accompanied their other halves as they prodded and probed the range of menstrual cups on display. Older women commented on how it’s such a relief to be able to talk about menstruation in public and with people you’ve only just met. They regaled of a time when periods were even more hush-hush and celebrated with us out mission of there being No More Taboo.
We would like to thank Lush Cribbs Causeway for being such wonderful hosts, encouraging every customer that came through their doors to consider buying the Charity Pot or simply to chat with us. Each member of their staff team was incredibly warm and so keen to find out more about what we do. On behalf of all of us at No More Taboo, thank you.
For more information, take a look at their website: https://www1.uwe.ac.uk/whatson/biggreenweek.aspx
Read more here: https://www.wen.org.uk/environmenstrual-week-of-action/
