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What is a period party and why are we throwing one on Saturday?

  • By Chloe Tingle
  • 24 May, 2016

Our first ever Period Party is on Saturday, 28th May at The Art's House, Stokes Croft, Bristol 3pm-5.30pm

Period parties are an open forum to talk about menstruation, something which 50% of us do and a minute percent of us talk about.

In total, six years of a woman's life will be spent menstruating! Whether you menstruate or not, six years is a long time to remain silent on something which is affecting your life, but how are you meant to broach a difficult topic like menstruation? Society dictates that if you start shouting about it from the rooftops you’ll be branded a ‘weirdo’ and if you mention it in the office you will be scowled at or told you’re acting inappropriately.

We want to create a space where it’s OK to talk about periods, those things that come around every month no matter how hard we try to ignore them. Whether it’s the good, the bad or the ugly it’s all to be celebrated because your period is a pretty amazing thing. Being able to talk about periods, to your friends, to your family, to your co-workers and acquaintances may seem a bit daunting but it’s the first step towards ending taboo around periods in our society and beyond. We want to give you some hints and tips and let you in on some period secrets.

What can you expect?

Our first ever Period Party on Saturday is in celebration of International Menstrual Hygiene Day. We want to invite people into the No More Taboo family, so you can get to know us and feel relaxed enough to talk periods.

We will be in the cosy setting of The Arts House on Stoke’s Croft eating scrummy cake and drinking delicious tea and coffee between 3pm and 5.30pm. It’s an afternoon of fun here’s what’s in the line-up but feel free to join us at any point, it’s a pretty relaxed affair:

 3.00-3.15 Joining the No More Taboo family, mainly eating lots of cake.

 3.15-3.35 Presenting our research into homelessness and menstruation-Shai Vora

Shai has been working over the last 6 months to conduct first-hand research into the effects menstruation can have on homeless women’s lives. Here she presents her findings with some moving accounts of the struggles these women face on a monthly basis.

 3.35-4.05 Eating more cake and lightening the mood with a quiz. With your chance to win amazing prizes including a “Period Survival Kit” [Warning: May include chocolate] don’t worry if you don’t have periods yourself it will make a great present for someone you love who does.

 4.05-4.35 Getting a bit hyper-active from all the coffee and enjoying some light-hearted improv provided by Alice Teale and co from the Bristol Student Union Improv Society.

 4.35-5.00- Talking periods! Enjoy your time, chat to your fellow “Period Party” attendees over a cup (your choice as to whether it’s a tea-cup or a menstrual cup) and make some new friends. A chance to ask questions about the products we sell and projects that we run in our Q&A booth. Check out our gallery of taboos. Pick up your hints and tips check-list for talking periods.

 5.00-5.30- Why #menstruationmatters to everyone everywhere- the work of No More Taboo in developing   communities- Chloe Tingle, Founder

Chloe has spent time researching menstrual taboos in Bolivia, Uganda and Nepal. Hear her stories here and find out how you can help break down the taboos overseas.

As we said, this is all about being able to break the silence around menstruation. We are starting a new series of “Period Parties” in your own home. Just you and up-to 20 of your close friends celebrating periods. A great way to get up close and personal to the alternative reusable sanitary products we sell, learn more about this taboo topic through interactive quizzes and ask those questions you daren’t usually ask. You will also be helping us to raise awareness of our charitable projects working in Nepal and Bristol. If you would like to have a “Period Party” in your home you can pledge here: www.crowdfunder.co.uk/nomoretaboo or get in touch with Chloe at chloe@nomoretaboo.org.

Can’t make it to our party? Help us break down taboos by sharing our crowdfunding campaign with your friends: www.crowdfunder.co.uk/nomoretaboo

 

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WOW Women of the World festivals have been popping up across the world, if you get the chance to go along to one we would strongly recommend it.

WOW – Women of the World  festival celebrates women and girls, and looks at the obstacles that stop them from achieving their potential.

Around the world, individuals and communities are insisting on the simple proposition that women and girls must have equal rights and asking the question: why is gender equality taking so long?

Southbank Centre's WOW – Women of the World  festival is a global network of festivals which provides a platform for celebrating what has been achieved, and exploring all the ways we can change the world for the better.

What’s not to love?

Our Founder, Chloe, and her Mum Angela went along to represent No More Taboo with a stall across the two days. Here’s her highlights:

“Although we didn’t get much time to take in all the discussions as we were kept busy wo-manning the stall (thanks Mum for helping out)! We had some great discussions around gender, equality, inclusivity and of course periods with new customers, supporters, other panellists and some old friends who came to see us.

In fact, we were really pleased to catch up with Plan International UK who were opening the festival with a discussion about Period Activism exactly one year on since the launch of our #BreaktheBarriers research and Period Poverty Conference that we ran in collaboration with Plan.

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By Iloni Kingston-Smith 17 Sep, 2018

On the first weekend of September, No More Taboo set up shop at Lush Cribbs Causeway for their Charity Pot weekend.

The Lush Charity Pot is a wonderfully creamy shea-butter hand lotion where all the sales money (excluding VAT) goes towards a chosen charity or non-for-profit. This scheme is designed to help boost grass-roots, small and local organisations, like ourselves, financially so that we can continue to do the work we do such as our Tackling Period Poverty programme.

As we were Lush’s chosen organisation for the weekend of the 1-2 September, one of our volunteers, Iloni, and one of our advisors, Carolyn, went along to wo-man the (suitably Lush-styled aesthetic) stall that Lush had kindly provided for us. We took along a range of our products, stacks of leaflets and information as well as our enthusiasm for talking about all things to do with periods.

Over the weekend, we sold over £200’s worth of stock with Ruby Cups and Honour Your Flow re-usable pads proving most popular with Lush customers. On top of this, Lush sold so many of their Charity Pots that £340.60 was raised for No More Taboo – which was amazing! 

However exciting the money side of things were with this event, what I personally took away as being the real highlight of the weekend was the number and nature of conversations we shared with customers. 

Mothers and daughters came and chatted to us about how they agreed it was so important to use re-usable products for personal and financial reasons as well as for the planet’s sake. Boyfriends accompanied their other halves as they prodded and probed the range of menstrual cups on display. Older women commented on how it’s such a relief to be able to talk about menstruation in public and with people you’ve only just met. They regaled of a time when periods were even more hush-hush and celebrated with us out mission of there being No More Taboo.

We would like to thank Lush Cribbs Causeway for being such wonderful hosts, encouraging every customer that came through their doors to consider buying the Charity Pot or simply to chat with us. Each member of their staff team was incredibly warm and so keen to find out more about what we do. On behalf of all of us at No More Taboo, thank you.

By Catriona Dickie 26 Jul, 2018
What is a Mooncup?

If you're following No More Taboo, chances are you are already aware that a Mooncup is a silicone menstrual cup. It is inserted vaginally and used throughout your period. There are two different sizes: size A, for those who are either thirty and over or have given birth vaginally, and size B, for under thirties who have not birthed a child vaginally. 

Why Use One?

The main reason I wanted to convert to a Mooncup is because I was feeling concerned about the amount of waste my period was generating every month. During the twelve years I've been menstruating I must have thrown thousands of tampons into landfill , and as I became more aware of the impact this is having on the planet, switching to a sustainable sanitary product seemed like a straightforward lifestyle change that would really make a difference.

Another advantage for frugal (or rather, perpetually skint) me was that for a £20 upfront investment I'd have an item that would last up to 10 years. And while a box of own-brand tampons is only a pound a pop, there's always a risk that a trip to Boots will result in an impulse buy and before I know it I've bought a new nail varnish and a Graze box and end up spending a tenner.

I also love to travel and have more than once found myself in a situation where I'm in a country without ready access to tampons. I'm not a big fan of pads and had found myself obsessively carrying around a box of tampons with me at all times and becoming anxious when I didn't have one on me. The great thing about the Mooncup, for me, is that all you have to do is empty it out and with a quick rinse or wipe it can be used again.

Finally, Mooncups are not known to carry any risk of Toxic Shock Syndrome, which I think we'll all agree is what nightmares are made of for those of us who menstruate. 

Putting it In

I was lucky enough to come on my period on a lazy Saturday afternoon. With no plans for the day that involved leaving the comfort of my home, I was able to fiddle around with folding and inserting and looking up advice online. After three failed attempts , the cup stayed put and I heard the satisfying sound of the vacuum seal closing in. Minimal leakage did occur over the course of the day but once I got the hang of the fold-and-insert method I was confident enough to wear my proverbial white jeans, like those women in the adverts who bleed blue menstrual blood.

Out and About

As I write this I've been using my Mooncup for about 6 months, and it did take me about 3 cycles to completely get used to it. I think after over a decade of using tampons, which are a lot smaller and more streamlined, this is probably normal. For me it was worth persevering and the benefits far outweigh the drawbacks, of which I can't think of any aside from the following: I have dropped it down the loo while taking it out a couple of times. This has never been much of a problem until last weekend when I dropped it down a portaloo never to be seen again. So much for that 10 year investment.

Verdict

What can I say, I'm a convert. For anyone willing to spend £20 I'd really say its worth giving the Mooncup a chance and persevering with the tricky first days. As for me, I'll be buying another to replace my lost menstrual cup and will be using organic tampons at festivals from now on.  

Feeling Inspired?

Are you ready to give the Mooncup a chance? Buy your Mooncup, or another menstrual cup, from our shop , where all profits go towards tackling period poverty in the UK.

If you're wondering how else you can reduce your plastic consumption, read about how me and Catherine challenged ourselves to a plastic-free fortnight

By Catherine Blom-Smith 19 Jul, 2018
Watch this space for information on how No More Taboo will be involved in Big Green Week, UWE's annual festival of eco ideas, events and smart living. 

For more information, take a look at their website:  https://www1.uwe.ac.uk/whatson/biggreenweek.aspx
By Catherine Blom-Smith 19 Jul, 2018
A whole week of period-related and enviro-conscious action! What could be better? This event will run from the 13th of to the 20th of October. Watch this space for details on how No More Taboo will be involved. 

Read more here:  https://www.wen.org.uk/environmenstrual-week-of-action/
By Catherine Blom-Smith 19 Jul, 2018
At this year's Women of the World Festival, our founder Chloe will be holding a workshop at their event in Exeter. She will be talking everything you need to know about cups! This event is on Sunday 14th October. Find out more at this link:  https://www.exeterphoenix.org.uk/events/women-of-the-world/
By Jenna Yates 19 Jul, 2018
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